Journal - I Want

If there is such a thing as a soul-mate, mine has these traits.

These are the things I crave and need.



To love and to be loved

To be desired and to be shown that I am desirable by actions

To be respected as a man

To care for the needs of the woman I love

To be needed as a provider and a protector

To be adored for each of my best qualities spiritually, physically, and intellectually

To be accepted as I am, faults included,
but encouraged to do my best

To be appreciated for my actions and attitudes

To be lusted after, teased, pursued, and consumed regularly

To be played with, in both simple fun and sex every day and night

To give and to receive both sexual and
non-sexual affection very frequently

To have an equal partner in adventure, both sexual
and in the pursuit of life experiences

To have a mate that shares my dreams as I share hers

To have a mate with desires and fantasies that I can fulfill

To have a mate that is roughly my equal in passion and sensuality

To have a mate that is physically attractive, having self-control and self-discipline

To have a mate that enjoys being sexy, in both attitude and appearance

To have a mate that I am proud of and who takes some pride in being mine

To give all that I am and all that I have, and for it to be enough

and

To have a mate that wants, at least to some degree, these qualities in return