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- "That is a hard thing to swallow for sure. It's hard to share your love with more than one soul when it's not programmed in to the fiber of your being although it can be learned hopefully you find a amazing resolution to this dilemma .... "
Posted by Unknown on "Life or Honor (Friday,_19_June_2015_09:02)" by BetaWolfinVA
- "I liked the way you described you beliefs, through the ending was a bit sad to think about."
Posted by Unknown on "religion" by BetaWolfinVA
- "why is it that sellers of alcohol and tobacco products card every one they suspect is below the age of 30 despite 18 being the legal age to buy cigarettes, and 21 the age to buy alcohol?
she lied to AOL to get access to the 18+ area where she surfed the profiles, and found mine... she claimed to be 19.
After a month of online and phone dating, i was already in trouble when i found out that she was not 19."
Posted by BetaWolfinVA on "Things i should have said over the past 18 Years (3May15_21:20)" by BetaWolfinVA
- "she chose me in 1996
tried a few times to come back into my life after she left...but i was always trying to make failing relationships work after she breezed through
moved in with my first wife and i in 2003
and was the one that inniated contact in 2012
i was normal, i was free of her... and she triggered my obsession, and i am trying to rebuild my mind again"
Posted by BetaWolfinVA on "Things i should have said over the past 18 Years (3May15_21:20)" by BetaWolfinVA
- "the only reason that i did not go to the memorial is because i put the good of my daughter above what i needed - she may see my sadness, but not know its reason - when she gets older, she will probably find my life a cautionary tale about knowing what is important to you, and knowing what you are willing to give up to get it, and the damage that results if you give up something that you cannot live without
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poly didnt work out
that was the 2003-2004 time frame, and i have not seen raven in the past ten years.
it was basically my attempt to have raven back in my life while i maintained my duty to my first wife... if i were a better man, i would have followed through with my first attempt to leave my first wife in 2003... i called raven, crying, letting her know that i was leaving my first wife, and raven made me take my first wife back
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but then again, i would not have been able to care for my first cousin, once removed ... i did not know until recently that raven never wants children
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poly is not legal in virginia, that only means that there was no legal recognition of the marriage, and that there was no paperwork needed when raven left to marry the man that she met while she lived here... i was happy she was happy... until the day she left
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obsessive, definately there is my life before raven, and my life after
stalkerish... not any more, she stopped the mutual stalking cold after i dissapointed her by not going to her mothers memorial... evidently her husband, his parents, and her room mate were not enough... "
Posted by BetaWolfinVA on "Things i should have said over the past 18 Years (3May15_21:20)" by BetaWolfinVA
- "If I may be brutally honest I find the bulk of your work selfish,creepy , obsessive and stalkerish ... is polygamy legal where you come from? ... and how on earth is it going to work if all parties involved aren't equally fine with the concept? ... it makes me wonder what lessons on life and love you may give your young charge and how it feels for her growing up in such a strange fractured environment... sorry if I'm missing something here or misinterpreting all your poetry..."
Posted by kinkifrog on "Things i should have said over the past 18 Years (3May15_21:20)" by BetaWolfinVA
- "I wish you could quit spending the years of your life pining away for something that was, in fact, not what you have turned it into in your mind. Based on your writings, she didn't choose you, but seems to merely show up at random with the sole outcome being to throw your life into turmoil. Let it go brother! Plenty of other fish in the sea...that are actually not already on another hook. You are worth more than that. I think she knows you are prone to fixate and she just needs to throw you a bone every few years, then sit back and watch things burn. That is a lot of power to allow someone. I wish you well...and would love to one day see you post love poems for someone entirely new NOT named Raven. She sounds like a freeloader that played with your emotions, and just shows up every few years to cause drama for you. "
Posted by TropicalSnowstorm on "Things i should have said over the past 18 Years (3May15_21:20)" by BetaWolfinVA
- "thanks for the smile :) an interesting time to upload this, but happy easter! capitalism has an interesting way of presenting itself as generosity at christmas time"
Posted by Unknown on "A lemmings Christmas" by BetaWolfinVA
- "there is nothing here about simple cheating
in three couples, couple A, Man is poly and Woman A is not
Woman A is knows than Man A has been text friends with woman B, but has not gone farther during *current* marriage; //
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Couple B, Woman B is poly and Man B is not Woman B has stopped playing with others, and broken off contact with man A after he was refused permission to attend woman B 's memorial for her mother; //
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Couple C has been sexless for thirteen years, both Man C (assumed by woman C) and Woman C (stated by woman C) cheat, Woman C is moving out of the house to get a love nest for her current lover (not known to Man C), and that would put Man C and D on the street; //
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Man D is the friend of Woman A in question.... Man A does not think that Woman A has exercised her permission.//
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again, this is not a case of simple cheating...
Man A would love it if Couples A & B were at minimum, on friendly terms and spent time together..."
Posted by BetaWolfinVA on "It seems that i am skirting the edge... (Tuesday, 24 Feb 2015)" by BetaWolfinVA
- "Cheating is easy. There's no swank to infidelity. To borrow against the trust someone has placed in you costs nothing at first. You get away with it, you take a little more and a little more until there is no more to draw on. Oddly, your hands should be full with all that taking but when you open them there's nothing there.
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Posted by anaksunamun on "It seems that i am skirting the edge... (Tuesday, 24 Feb 2015)" by BetaWolfinVA
- "Some times simple oversights have life altering consequences.
Some of them involve what you knew at specific times.
And decades later "I didn't know" is indefensible to yourself, even if no one else cares"
Posted by BetaWolfinVA on "One such Moment in time" by BetaWolfinVA
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