on permitted play, and when it ends (Tuesday,_23_June_2015)

Every one has a point beyond which they cannot be pushed, or even suggested.

You need to know your boundaries, you need to know your partners boundaries.

If you or your partner cannot abide within them, you are not with the right one.

If you or your partner suddenly find or rediscover the one that gives life meaning, you must decide how much you want to share... be aware that you or your partner cannot always control the way you feel... know what you can accept, and what you cannot.

First wife chose "share the house, nothing else" (after one time)
One that gives life meaning (of 3 years on, four years off) chose "come back into his life, when he leaves wife of three years, crying about pain caused, make him take her back, then make him leave her... without tears this time"
The last didn't work.. ten years later i am now a trifle unhinged (stay, go, stay, go, fry)
When you have control of someone's soul, do not use them like a yoyo.

Second wife (of 5 years) is choosing scorched earth.
To point that "happy birthday" "thanks :)" is cheating

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A New Dream
Tuesday, 23 June 2015
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