It's been a long, long time since I visited DarkPoetry, but I'm realizing I owe it quite a bit. The confidence I gained here, from such brilliant and wonderful people, has served me well. I write professionally and make a genuine living at it, which is something I never thought I would do.
I'm an assistant queer pornographer by day, social justice writer by night. They're not as disparate as some might lead you to believe.
Currently living in California. I have a dandy queer boy partner I live with who does the cooking and the cuddling, a nerdy male lover I see regularly for filthy sex and smart pillow talk, and a brilliant girlfriend who teaches me the finer points of wrestling and pinball. It's a good life.